Monday, September 20, 2010

When the river dries up

What's a spanko gal to do when her river dries up? When her libido hides under the covers? Well, sure there's the obvious stuff - ask the doctor, go see a therapist, cry, try a vibrator, or make a sweet cup of love tea. But then what?

Well, here's where it rocks being a spanko. Even when the body doesn't respond - because of stress, illness, relationship doozies or other - the mind is so well-disciplined that it can still trigger the high. Read a spanking story, watch a clip, or delve into the blogging scene. Look through your closet for an item of clothes that could work as a costume. Remember your hottest fantasy scenarios. Chat with strangers across the world who share your kink.

I've had a hard journey in the last few years. But I am so grateful for my endlessly creative fetish, one which has carried me to galaxies with comic book stars radiating from my behind. My drive will come back one day, and when it does, I'll have a long list of positions I want to try, expressions of submission I want to share, and a stored up spankgasm that will need some serious attention. I am in a cocoon, but my wings are tapping against the walls.

1 comment:

  1. We are an imaginative group with lots of triggers. What other people can see a benign household item such as a slipper and suddenly feel the compelling need for alone time under the sheets?

    And I love this line, "...one which has carried me to galaxies with comic book stars radiating from my behind".

    With your stored up spankgasm, your need to express your submissive side, and imaginative positions, you are sure to make any of your future spankers praise their fortune and wonder where you've been all their lives.

    Remember, friend, "Love will come to you"...

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